Whenever I say to myself in the mirror, “You are hot stuff” it does the opposite of making me vain and self-centered. I have a good laugh, feel more confident, and less focused on myself for the rest of the day. 🙂
It’s good that it has that affect on you. however, it doesn’t always work that way with other people…most just look at themselves and think more highly of themselves than they ought…myself included. 😉
Hrmm…good insight on the mind of women. As for men, we just look in the mirror and wonder if we should bother shaving that day. Most of us could care less about how attractive we may or may not be.
To answer your question…I don’t think I’m attractive at all. I’ve been told that I’m an attractive guy, but I don’t see what other people see.
You are cute! Sons and daughters of the King of Kings, created in His image. Wonderfully and fearfully made. Beautiful and wonderous even.
The way we look on the outside can be a bit deceptive however, because we have a tendency to want others to perceive us as cute and to treat us better according to our attractiveness. I think that’s a leftover from childhood, because kids act extra cute so we don’t kill them. It doesn’t work so well as an adult. 😉
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amen!
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I am here to agree…Yes, we all look quite cute this day! The herd be damned.
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🙂 thanks for the comment! and yes…we are all cute.
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Just don’t look in the mirror. Focus on other people.
Leslie
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good advice. thanks, Leslie.
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It may be “pathetic” but I think you should do it anyway, just for kicks. Most of us could use a confidence boost.
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yes, this is true. If even for a short moment of time, the boost of confidence does manage to help us get out the door some days. 🙂
thanks for the comment, Quix!
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Whenever I say to myself in the mirror, “You are hot stuff” it does the opposite of making me vain and self-centered. I have a good laugh, feel more confident, and less focused on myself for the rest of the day. 🙂
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It’s good that it has that affect on you. however, it doesn’t always work that way with other people…most just look at themselves and think more highly of themselves than they ought…myself included. 😉
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What?? Nah! At least not most women. Most women look in the mirror and criticize themselves. Not sure how it is with men.
So my question is…are you really good looking or just think you are?
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Hrmm…good insight on the mind of women. As for men, we just look in the mirror and wonder if we should bother shaving that day. Most of us could care less about how attractive we may or may not be.
To answer your question…I don’t think I’m attractive at all. I’ve been told that I’m an attractive guy, but I don’t see what other people see.
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Aw, well then you are alright I think. The way you described it I pictured you blowing kisses and winking at yourself in the mirror. 😂LOL
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LOL! umm…. no. that would be incredibly pathetic.
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It surely would! 😀
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You are cute! Sons and daughters of the King of Kings, created in His image. Wonderfully and fearfully made. Beautiful and wonderous even.
The way we look on the outside can be a bit deceptive however, because we have a tendency to want others to perceive us as cute and to treat us better according to our attractiveness. I think that’s a leftover from childhood, because kids act extra cute so we don’t kill them. It doesn’t work so well as an adult. 😉
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aww…thanks. you’re cute too! 🙂
You always express things in words that make sense. Thanks, IB.
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Well well well! So you’re cute then!
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LOL! thank you!! So are you. 🙂
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🙂
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