Thursday, November 23, 2017 is the day we here in the USA celebrate Thanksgiving.
It’s a day for us to reflect on all the wonderful things God has blessed us with.
To all who read my blog…
I wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving.
This may come as a shock, but over the course of my working career I’ve been sexually harassed by both genders…women and men.
Let me begin with the woman who felt it necessary to touch me in a manner that made me really uncomfortable. — She actually confessed to the manager that she had feelings for me and was hoping I would feel the same. She thought touching me in certain ways and at different times would give a subtle hint… — umm…not so much.
A few years before that there was a woman who made it a point to tell our co-workers that she was going to marry me and we were going to have lots of children together….of course this was without my consent or knowledge…heck! I later found out that to top it off, she even went so far as to order a wedding cake and plan out the ceremony she was going to have with me as the groom! . . . . sigh . . . Wasn’t that sweet of her? — let me answer that for ya . . . Nope!
Of course there was also the middle-aged homosexual man who made it a point to conveniently have a cigarette every morning just outside the door that led to my office. I always found it weird why he would
chase follow me and another male co-worker into the office and offer us treats, homemade goodies or give us compliments on our looks and ask us over to dinner. — uhhh…thanks but, I’m into girls.
Since this is a PG rated blog, I’m only sharing the less graphic versions of my adventures in harassment. I could go further into detail, but that’s just a waste of your time and mine.
Believe me when I tell you that I’ve had my fair share of people who have made unwanted sexual advances towards me in the work place; however, every single time it’s happened, I’ve tolerated it for a few weeks before I finally said something to them about how uncomfortable it was. If they didn’t get my hint, I would take the matter up with my supervisors or human resources to put an end to it.
No matter how embarrassing it might be. No matter what it might do to my career. I didn’t want to let it drag on, I didn’t want to make excuses like, “oh well, people are just that way,” and I didn’t tolerate it for the sake of my career.
Some of you might be thinking or saying… “yeah, but you’re a guy. It’s easier for you to stand up and say something.”
Uhhh . . . . NO . IT . IS . NOT!
You have no idea how many times I thought about staying quiet and just coping with the situation hoping it would just blow over. Truth is, since I was a guy, I was afraid that no one would believe me, or worse, that I’d become the joke of the office.
Eventually I realized that if I didn’t speak up, these people who were making me uncomfortable would have power over me for a long time to come, and they would never stop. Worse yet, that I would never have another day where I felt comfortable coming to work or leaving my home.
Don’t misunderstand, it wasn’t easy confronting the person who was making me uncomfortable or going to my supervisor and telling them a co-worker was making me uncomfortable, but I had to do it. I had to suck it up and realize that if I lost my job because the company decided to back a person who made me uncomfortable, then that wasn’t a company I wanted to work for. Not too mention, that if my supervisor didn’t care enough about me to take me seriously and investigate the situation, then that wasn’t a person I wanted to work for either.
That’s why this whole mess of accusers who are coming forward with claims they were harassed 20, 30 or 40 years ago, doesn’t sit well with me. Nor does it sit well with me that people are getting fired over these claims and accusations without due process.
These people (both men and women) are just NOW coming forward with all these accusations of unwanted sexual harassment?
Taking a look back at the events that transpired when I approached my supervisors, I made certain that they investigated the situation and formed a case before taking any actions. They interviewed people who were witnesses, they took the time to gather evidence and conspicuously confronted the accused to form a case before taking it to human resources, handling the matter outright or even taking legal action.
It disappointments me that the accusers today aren’t interested in forming a case against those they accused. Whether it did or did not happen, the accusers just want to be right and want their brand of justice. — Get them fired. Get them out. They hurt me and I want the world to know it! — The motives of these people can be described in one word: REVENGE.
In my past situations I never wanted revenge. I just wanted the people who were making lewd comments to stop so I could be comfortable going to work for 8+ hours a day.
Revenge is not a good thing because it reveals the true side of the human heart. The corruption and hatred, the selfishness and pride, the arrogance, the bitterness, the strife.
It really amazes me how no one seems to be calling out these accusers for waiting for so long. What is their motive? Why now? Why did they wait so long?!?! Instead, they form social media groups and hashtag labels to let others join in the #metoo campaign.
They call it “strength in numbers”…
I call it Pathetic!!
It’s also pathetic how harassmentgate 2017 has ballooned into this horrible mess of pathetic stupidity when none of this should be happening right now because the accusers who are claiming “harassment” should have stood up years ago and put the accused in their place then…not waiting some 20, 30 or 40 years in the future to get their revenge!
Ironically, their revenge is bitter sweet because all of the accused have amassed fortunes over the years, and are living high on the hog. If they get fired from whatever they were doing, so what! They just take their fortunes and run.
Retirement, here they come!
You know, I’m not shocked by it, but in all honesty I find it difficult to understand how the world has become such a horrible place to live. How did we get here?
The world is filled with followers who are flat out pathetically crazy, and more and more cattle decide to wander into the other pasture following the masses down a broad road of destruction.
It’s pathetic they are even considered part of the human race.
I woke up this morning with an uneasy feeling that won’t go away. It’s that feeling that something is off today. Something just isn’t right…
It’s not a fear…not really anxiety…it’s just, uneasy. It’s like the Holy Spirit is trying to tell me something is going to happen and to be on guard. Be ready. Be aware. Stand firm because the enemy is making a move.
I don’t get these all that often…just once in a while when things don’t seem right. They typically last a couple days, and then I shrug them off and life gets back to normal. That is…until something bad happens somewhere in the world.
Uneasy feelings can be a pathetic nuisance.
A weird adjective but with a strong meaning. — “full of… characterized by… or showing presumption or readiness to presume in conduct or thought, as by saying or doing something without right or permission.”
No one is immune to this. We all want to be recognized. We all want to have notoriety, so we cattle spend so much time living in pride and arrogance thinking…presuming… we were “called“, then we form arguments to justify our actions or words. More often than not, that justification is based on our own selfishness.
We want, but we don’t have…so we take by force to possess because we believe strongly that we deserve. However, that “deserving” belief is one that leads to contempt and strife because the one who was truly deserving is now without and the one who now possesses is filled with unexplained regret.
Moreover, to minimize the feeling of regret the one who now possesses justifies their actions by declaring they are deserving; but in declaring their deserving spirit hasn’t the one who now possesses become a judge over those who no longer possess?
This pride and arrogance…at it’s core is greed, hostility, contempt for others. It is selfishness.
So bold. So confident in our own beliefs. Thinking we are highly esteemed. Overstepping boundaries. Speaking out when you weren’t given permission. You’ve been warned that such attitudes have been condemned…
If a man acts presumptuously toward his neighbor, so as to kill him craftily, you are to take him even from My altar, that he may die.” – Exodus 21:14
The man who acts presumptuously by not listening to the priest who stands there to serve the Lord your God, nor to the judge, that man shall die; thus you shall purge the evil from Israel.” – Deut 17:12
But the prophet who speaks a word presumptuously in My name which I have not commanded him to speak, or which he speaks in the name of other gods, that prophet shall die.” – Deut 18:20
How many have presumed their actions of harm towards another were justified? Or that their words are meant to be spoken because they had a “feeling of being “called” to speak or write a book“? How many have acted boldly or spoke with liberty that was not theirs to possess? Who took the reigns of a runaway cart where the horse was left behind?
Do they not possess a behavior that is perceived as arrogant, disrespectful, and transgressing the limits of what is permitted or appropriate by a Holy and Righteous God, yet they continue each day paying no regard to the truth. Living a presumptuous life of decay and immorality.
Disobeying willfully, and out of arrogance and pride they justify their disobedience with no regard to the fatality of their words and actions towards their own soul.
If only we all would pray as David… “Also keep back Your servant from presumptuous sins; Let them not rule over me. Then I will be blameless, and I shall be acquitted of great transgression.”
Oh to be acquitted of great transgression and to live a blameless life!! What joys would be experienced. What love would be shared among all humanity. What anxiety, fears and regrets would be abolished!! What thanks humans would have from the cleansing of their conscience!! What humility would come from the renewing of the minds and heart!!
May the God of Heaven and Earth, the Father of our Lord Jesus protect each of you today from presumptuous sins.
Believe me, I know A LOT of people who have doctorates or master’s degrees in a specific field…they’ve spent years working in those fields…but they never learned anything. It’s all huff and fluff with not a shred of substance . . .in layman’s terms: “surface knowledge”. . . and it’s quite pathetic when they attempt to declare their so-called “wisdom” because it turns out to be ignorance and nonsense. So, please take my advice… just shut your pie hole and walk away. Don’t talk. Don’t type. Just walk away.
I don’t agree with “professional” athletes sitting or kneeling during the national anthem. I also changed my stance and don’t agree that players who protest should be fired or banned from the sport for doing so.
However, I do believe that if I were an owner of one of these so-called “professional” sports franchises, I would force every player on the team to volunteer for one or two hours a week at a Veterans Hospital or a rehabilitation center for those who have lost a limb while in the line of service.
I believe this service to our wounded veterans would help to build a bridge between the over-paid athletes who get paid a lot of money who fight for nothing and the veterans who don’t get paid nearly enough to protect the sovereignty of this great nation and fought for everything.
Consequently, if any player, regardless of talent or contract, refused or did not fulfill the quota of one to two hours of volunteer service at a Veterans Hospital or rehab facility, that player would never see any playing time and might be traded away or released from their contract.
(please note that the topic is “building the wall” NOT illegal immigration. That’s another beast of which I choose not to delve at this time.)
I don’t agree with building a wall between Mexico and the USA. I think walls are a bad idea because they create division and make people feel trapped or secluded.
However, I do believe in building bridges and the only way to build bridges between the USA and Mexico is to dig a very large, very deep, very long canal from the gulf of Mexico to the Gulf of California, then from the Gulf of California to the Pacific Ocean.
The canal wouldn’t have to follow the border.
If done correctly, it would begin near South Padre Island, cut through to the Rio Grande, turn North to Nuevo Laredo, Piedras Negras and Ciudad Acuna, then west to the Big Bend National Park, Northwest to El Paso where it would then cut west across the New Mexico and Arizona borders until it reached Nogales, where it would then cut through Mexico to reach the Gulf of California.
A second canal would then be created through Baja California.
Playa Hawaii and Colonet are possible entry and exit points.
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Yes, this is an impossible task…but so was defeating Nazi Germany, getting a plane off the ground, the Panama Canal, going to the moon and returning, Hoover dam, stealth bombers and … dare I say it…computers.
What I’m saying here is that everything is impossible until someone does it. The will and ingenuity of humankind is amazing.
Therefore, consider all the jobs this canal would create. The machinery and manpower it would take to complete such a monumental task. The bridges that could be built. The shipping channels, the resorts, the commerce that could be created if people would just embrace an impossible challenge and work together to make it a reality.
I’m reminded of the words of former U.S. President John F Kennedy who said in his speech to Congress regarding space travel, “These are extraordinary times, and we face an extraordinary challenge. Our strengths as well as our convictions have imposed upon this nation the role of leader in freedom’s cause.”
And I believe that role has never ceased to exist. This is why former U.S. President Ronald Reagan stood firm in his belief that, “We in the West stand ready to cooperate with the East to promote true openness, to break down barriers that separate people, to create a safe, freer world.”
And the very reason that he recited those those unforgettable words: “General Secretary Gorbachev, if you seek peace, if you seek prosperity for the Soviet Union and Eastern Europe, if you seek liberalization: Come here to this gate! Mr. Gorbachev, open this gate! Mr. Gorbachev, tear down this wall!”
Therefore, if we, The United States of America, truly are the leader in freedom’s cause, then why would we as a nation ever want to build barriers that we so desperately seek to break down for other nations?
My dear followers, similar to the hopes and belief of John F. Kennedy, who desired to send man to outer space and have him return, as well as those hopes and beliefs of former President Ronald Reagan who desired that the former Soviet Union tear down the barriers of oppression; I too hope and believe that jobs can be created, commerce can be improved and bridges can be built with the completion of a canal between two great nations of the world: Mexico and the United States.
I’ll close with these words from Ronald Reagan:
“As I looked out a moment ago from the Reichstag, that embodiment of German unity, I noticed words crudely spray-painted upon the wall, perhaps by a young Berliner: “This wall will fall. Beliefs become reality.” Yes, across Europe, this wall will fall. For it cannot withstand faith; it cannot withstand truth. The wall cannot withstand freedom.”
It’s pathetic to think otherwise.
Click >Ronald Reagan’s Speech< to hear.
Click >John F. Kennedy Speech< to hear.